I’ll be honest with you – I really hate having to go through profiles, contacting women. I do it because it increases my chances of getting laid. But I prefer having women first contact me since it’s much less time consuming. However, you can’t just expect women to contact you. You have to learn how to game cougar dating sites so that your profile consistently appears at the top of the search results. I’m going to teach you the Cougar dating site loopholes I discovered that ensured my profile was always at or near the top.
Frequently Update Your Profile
At least 2-3 times per week you should be updating your profile with fresh content and new photos. Members that are active on the site will be given preference in the search listings. How should you update your profile? Just tweak the content a bit. Change up sentence structures, add/remove a few sentences, and upload at least 1 new photo each week. Every once in a while I will even do a complete profile overhaul if I wasn’t getting very good results from my previous profile.
You don’t have to do a complete overhaul very often. But I like to test a few profile styles and see which one(s) get the best results. So updating your profile can help you accomplish 2 things – getting your profile to the top of search results AND testing out different profile styles.
Be An Active Member on the Site
Updating your profile a couple of times per week isn’t enough to game the site. You have to log-in DAILY and actually communicate with other members in order to keep your profile at the top of search results. I have discovered that members that send out the most emails/IM’s/etc. are given preference. Their profiles will be placed higher than members that do not communicate with other members frequently. You’ll never hear a dating site admit this, but I can assure you that it is true. They use algorithms in determining how profiles are listed when another member performs a search. Site activity is the #1 factor.
Site activity isn’t only about the amount of messages you send to other members. Logging in on a daily basis is VERY important. Even if you don’t have time to send out any messages some days, make sure you take the time just to log-in. Certainly you can find time in your busy schedule to log onto your Cougar dating site. It takes all of 2 seconds. When women search for men, they don’t even bother contacting men that haven’t logged in the past week. And the first men they will see will be the ones that have logged in within the past 24 hours.
Profile placement is EVERYTHING. It’s very possible you found our website by doing a Google search. Chances are, whatever keyword you typed in, our website ranked 1st or 2nd in the Google search results. Dating sites are similar to a search engine in that those that search for someone/something rarely look beyond the first page of results. So if you found our site by searching the term “gaming Cougar dating sites”, chances are we were one of the first couple of search results. Women on dating sites have the same mindset. If your profile doesn’t appear at or near the top of the search results, very few women will even find you.