Why Older Women Date Younger Men: She Wants Something She Never Had

In most cases, the youngest person in a relationship is the female. That’s just how most men and women are programmed. But there are many older women that have a thing for younger men, and younger men that have an older woman fetish. Personally, I’m all about the older women. I have been ever since I was in my teens. When I was 18, I had a cute girlfriend that had a smoking hot Mom. Don’t get me wrong, I had a lot of fun with my girlfriend. But I always fantasized about having sex with her Mom. Unfortunately, that never happened!


Although I didn’t sleep with her Mom, I later found out that she was a Cougar and chased younger Men after getting divorced. When I found this out, I nearly went after her, but figured it would be best not to. At this point, I was in my early 20’s. To me, she was the ultimate MILF. But I didn’t really understand why she went for Men my age. After all, her daughter was dating guys my age. It just seemed weird that a mother would date guys the same age as her daughter.

 Having sex

Having sex

She Wants What She Never Had

When you’re in your teens and twenties, your sex life usually isn’t that great. Sure, it’s fun, but it’s not as pleasurable as it will be once you hit your 30’s. Women in their 40’s want to relive their twenties with a few improvements. This time around, they’re looking for GREAT sex. Not just a bunch of quickies or the type of sex that you have just because you want to have sex. They want mind-blowing sex with a 20-something guy. In their minds, it will make them feel young again without the mediocre sex life.

Cougars are a different breed. They’ve been through a lot in their lives. Many of them have been married and divorced. Most of the Cougars I’ve slept with have mentioned their ex-husband was horrible in bed. I even dated one Cougar that told me she spent 10 years with the same guy and only had sex, on average, about once per month.

Looking for great sex

Looking for great sex

Why Older Men Don’t Do It For Her

As mentioned above, most Cougars have already been married. Chances are they were married to someone around their own age. The relationship fizzled and the sex probably wasn’t that good. Some Cougars were married to a guy ever since their twenties. She may have stuck with this guy despite a poor sex life. Now that it’s over, she doesn’t want to go back to dating someone her own age. Why? Because she so desperately wants to relive her twenties. Dating a man her age won’t allow her to do that.

Poor sex life

Poor sex life