You know why it is that you are attracted to older women. For me, it’s a fantasy I had ever since I had the Hots for my High School girlfriend’s Mom. She had such an amazing body. Ever since then, I’ve fantasized about sleeping with her. Although I’m not actually sleeping with her when I date Cougars I meet online, they’re still playing the role of my ex’s Mom. It’s a weird fantasy to have, but it’s my fantasy nonetheless. So we all have our own reasons for being attracted to older, more mature women.
But what do Cougars see in younger men? For the most part, they find that sex with a younger man is better than someone their own age. Cougars also like to feel young. They like to do things younger people do such as going out to bars to dance and drink the night away. It’s hard to find partners their own age that still enjoy the nightlife scene. With that said, don’t be fooled by what they REALLY are after – a better sex life.
The Problem With Older Men – They Can’t Sexually Keep Up With a Cougar
When you reach your 40’s, you’ll still crave sex. You may even want it often. But your constant obsession with sex will begin to decline. Once you hit your 50’s, it will decline even further. Cougars have high sex drives. They want a man that’s sexually on their level. If she wants to fuck twice per day, she needs a man that wants sex just as often.
Men in their 20’s have a higher desire for regular sex. They’re also less likely to suffer from Erectile Dysfunction and other sexual disorders. Stamina is a big issue for a man in his 40’s and 50’s. He doesn’t have the energy to keep up with a woman that has a high sex drive like he could back in the day.
Cougars Usually Aren’t Looking for Anything Serious
I’ve met tons of Cougars. One thing almost all of them have in common is they have become anti-marriage. They’ve been through at least one failed marriage and don’t care to go through another one any time soon. So they want something a bit less serious. Men in their 40’s and 50’s usually want to settle down if they’re single. Cougars know they can easily find 20-something dudes that would love to just have some fun without the stresses of a committed relationship. It’s all about a fantasy to you and them. Their fantasy is to relive their 20’s. Being able to do this turns them on, which leads to a better sex life.