My early struggles as an online dater were the direct result of not knowing how to ask a woman for her digits. I had no problems getting women interested in me, but when it came to sealing the deal, I just couldn’t close. Once you get her digits, it’s not very hard to get laid. Cougars often have trust issues based on past abusive relationships. Because of that, she won’t just give out her number to anyone. You have to earn those digits.
Getting her digits is all about building trust. How do you build trust with a Cougar? By showing her you’re not like most other guys your age. The majority of men Cougars will chat with online will be immature and perverted. You should act differently. Now, don’t get me wrong – I know what you’re looking for. You mostly just want a sexual relationship with a Cougar. And that’s likely all she will want from you. But that doesn’t mean she wants you to talk about sex and nothing else. Women don’t like perverted men, even if they want nothing more than a sexual relationship with the man.
Getting a Cougar’s digits is all about timing, smooth talking, and building up trust. You can’t move too quickly to get her digits. Chat with her for a while. Once she’s clearly enjoying the conversation, ask her for her digits. To guarantee she gives them to you, try one of these 3 lines. They have NEVER failed me.
- “I’m really enjoying this conversation. I’d like to continue it over the phone so I can hear your voice. Why don’t you give me your phone number and I’ll ring you in a bit?”
- “I’m ready to get off the computer but I’d love to continue this conversation. What’s your cell phone number so I can text you?”
- “I love chatting with you but I need to get off here. Time to do some laundry. How’s about you give me your digits and I’ll hit you up once I have my clothes in the washer?”
Why Those Lines Are So Successful
You shouldn’t ever beg for her number or come off as a cocky bastard when asking for it. You should be smooth. Don’t beat around the bush and don’t pressure her to give you her digits. The 3 lines above are smooth, yet aggressive. I gave her a legitimate reason why I don’t want to continue the conversation online in each of those lines. I also didn’t pressure her for her digits. It was a simple “can I have your phone number so we can continue the conversation…?”