Everyone has a fetish or sexual fantasy they want to act out. Cougars are no different. Although everyone is turned on by different things, I’ve noticed that there are a few fantasies that pretty much every Cougar has. This Blog post was written to help you understand what Cougars are looking for. It’s up to you to allow them to act out one (or all) of these 3 fantasies…
I know what you’re thinking – doesn’t everyone love oral sex? And isn’t oral sex part of everyone’s sex lives? Well, of course. But you must understand what Cougars have been through. Almost all of them were once (or twice, thrice, 4-times, etc.) married. Many of these relationships ended because the sex life fizzled. Chances are she didn’t have much sex.
With that said, many Cougars have been in relationships where the husband/boyfriend would almost never go down on them. If she had sex, it was probably intercourse and no foreplay. So you’re likely to meet Cougars that are starved to have oral sex performed on them.
Try Out Every Sex Position
Cougars have often been deprived of sex. Now that she’s on the prowl, she wants to really let loose and experiment. This is something she hasn’t been able to do for a long time. Part of experimenting in the bedroom includes trying out multiple sex positions. One day you’ll do it doggystyle, another day you’ll do it on the kitchen table. Be open to mixing things up. Girl-on-top or guy-on-top is fun, but shouldn’t be the only positions you try out.
A Passionate, Romantic Man
Again, most Cougars are sexually deprived women. “Passion” and “romance” are foreign words to them. Many of the Cougars I’ve dated had passionate relationships with their spouse early on, but somewhere along the lines, the romance was gone. Now she wants a man that knows how to romance her. Kiss her passionately, take your time when having sex. Don’t focus on you getting off as much as you focus on pleasing her. Kiss her like they do in the movies. She wants that. And make sure you cuddle with her after sex.