Now that you’ve finally got her digits and have to speak to her over the phone, you can’t hide behind a computer/SMS. I wasn’t very good over the phone with women a few years back. It cost me a few chances to hookup with women. I could charm the heck out of them over Instant Messenger, but then I would screw things up on the phone.
If she gives you her digits, she’s very likely to at least go out on a date with you. You can decrease the probability of her going on a date with you if you don’t impress her over the phone. One way to not impress her is to talk differently than you did online. If your demeanor and personality are different, she’ll be disappointed. So what should you talk about to a Cougar over the phone? Stick to these 3 conversation pieces and you’ll do just fine…
Where to go on a first date
This is the most important topic. Don’t be indecisive. That’s unattractive to women. Decide where you want to go and tell her (don’t ask) to meet you there at an agreed upon date and time. Don’t ask her what she would like to do or where she would like to go. You’re the man. You make the decisions. This shows you’re a strong, confident, and decisive man. So when she asks you where you’re going to take her, don’t respond with, “where would you like to go?” Respond with, “there’s a new bar on 46th street, meet me there at 8?”
What you’re looking for in a relationship
You probably chatted a bit about what you’re looking for in a relationship with her online. When you have her on the phone, reiterate what you said so she’ll know you truly meant it. It’s amazing what actually hearing something come out of your mouth will do to build a woman’s trust. Also, go more in-depth about what you’re specifically looking for. Women know that guys BS a lot on Instant Messenger. It’s harder to get away with BSing someone over the phone because she can hear your tone of voice.
Why you like her
One of the first things I say to a woman over the phone are the reasons I want to go on a date with her. Say sweet things to her such as you really liked her smile in her profile picture or you enjoyed texting/Instant Messaging her because she was awesome conversation. Give her some compliments but don’t go overboard. Constantly complimenting a woman is actually very annoying. It won’t seem genuine after a while.