Cougar Date Story #5: Who Says Blondes Have the Most Fun?

I don’t want you to think I’m a blonde hater after reading this. I’ve actually been with quite a few attractive blondes that were good in bed and fun to hangout with. But I met a brunette named Kathy about a year ago that I will NEVER forget. She was different than any other woman I had ever met – in a good way. Everything about her was different. Her eyes were mesmerizing. Her hair was just begging for me to run my hands through. Her body was toned – nice rack and ass to boot. And her personality was even better. She had beauty, brains, and the type of personality anyone would want to hangout with even if she weren’t much to look at.


Kathy was the Girl Next Door, except she was 42 years old. She had that youthful exuberance. When I first saw her (we met at a quiet bar right next to my house), I was in a bit of shock. How was it possible that I found someone so beautiful online? After seeing her, I knew there had to be a kicker. A single woman this beautiful must have the worst personality ever or is a complete train wreck. That couldn’t be further from the truth, as it turned out. She was very down to earth, friendly, and was some amazing conversation.

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It’s funny that I showed up for the date with one thing on my mind – sex. An hour into the date, I wasn’t even thinking about taking her back to my place yet. We had a lot in common. We both enjoyed the outdoors, going hiking, mountain climbing, etc. So we had plenty to talk about. She seemed genuinely interested in me and my hobbies, past, and future goals.

 You showed up for the date with one thing on my mind sex

You showed up for the date with one thing on my mind sex

A couple of hours had passed and I hadn’t even asked her to come back to my house (which was right next door). Time flies by when you’re having fun. It’s very unusual for me to continue on a date with a woman for 2 hours without making my move. On this date, I didn’t even have to make a move. She did it for me. She simply said “since you live next door, why don’t we take the conversation back to your place”

That is code for “I’m horny, fuck me now”! And I knew that. So we went back to my place, and within 15 minutes, we were both completely undressed. I won’t give you the graphic details of what went on, but let’s just say it was some mind-blowing sex. Usually, I just want sex from a woman. I’m not much for committed relationships at this point in my life.

Guys feel some mind-blowing sex

Guys feel some mind-blowing sex

But for some reason, I wanted to hangout with her outside the bedroom. We fell asleep shortly after. Then we woke up, went out for some breakfast and did some rock climbing (an activity we both enjoyed). She was a ton of fun, and not only in the bedroom. If I wanted a committed relationship, she would have been my first option. But I didn’t want that type of relationship. However, I wanted to keep her around for the sex and because I can always use friends to hangout with. We had sex off and on for a few months. Once that breaks off, normally I completely eliminate the woman from my life. Not with her. We still hangout and talk all the time. I enjoy her company and conversation. And we have a lot in common.